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这两天有一位比我年龄还大的人,找到我,41岁,在聊天时对我说了很多。

他说5年前开始戒,经常强戒10几天就破戒了,现在身体颓废了,腰痛经常严重失眠,白发最近2年增多,其他症状就不一一表述了,活在地狱之中一样。去年命运再次恶果,骑电动车摔跤摔坏了股骨颈骨折,现在不能走路了,痛苦加上痛苦,现在无法工作,连生活都成问题了,既要恢复股骨颈骨折,还要走家人不能理解的戒色道路,现在朋友远离我,亲人嫌弃我,我是不是没有希望了。

上面说的每一个字,都是他的原话。

那这种情况,就是向下走走了很多年,走到了一个很无奈的阶段了。

41岁,确实是个尴尬的年龄,但我相信希望肯定是有的,在他戒除到半年、一年之后,精气神、工作方面肯定都会有好转。

但要想恢复到正常人的水平,就很难了,几乎是不可能的事。

他不像10几岁20几岁的年轻人,恢复能力那么强。比如最近有个大二的学员,他之前记忆力、思维能力不太好,高二时候意识到了这可能是放纵自己造成的,就开始断断续续地戒,最近戒了2个多月后,觉得自己脑子非常灵活,大学里比较难的课程也学得进去了,甚至可以从早上6点开始做事,中午不睡午觉,一直做到下午6点,然后再去跑个步,回宿舍洗澡休息,精力很足。

很多年龄小的人,都是这样,恢复地很快,但我接触到的30岁左右的人,肾虚都很严重,戒一两个月可能精气神才稍微恢复一点点,整个人精神面貌很不好。

所以千万要明白,为什么很多老戒友都说戒色要趁早。尤其是一些年轻人,觉得自己还有资本放纵,想等出问题了那天再戒,犹豫不决,你可知道这个41岁大叔年轻时候也是这样想的。

了解上瘾知识的人都知道,你的上瘾程度一定会越来越深,频率和次数也会越来越多,慢慢地你会根本控制不住自己,只会一次又一次地放纵来损害自己的身心健康,直到不可挽回的地步。

我希望大家都能及时警醒,不要在为时已晚时追悔莫及。